It is more common than it probably should be to get back together with an ex. People get back together all the time, but sometimes a person will be in a break up situation and they will not know exactly how to proceed to get their ex to take them back. I have been in this confusing sort of position before, as I am sure many of the people who are reading this article have been, and it can really throw you in terms of knowing what you should do to get them back. Not every plan will work with every ex, and that is why in this article I would like to share 2 different plans on getting an ex back that you can try. By giving you these plans, you can try each one after the other, and eventually, one of them might just work.
Plan number one: Spend some time away from your ex and then turn up unexpected on their doorstep
After you break up with an ex they will probably have some bad feelings about you, so that is why it is best to take some time away from them for a few weeks, to allow their emotions to calm. After that time you can then just rock up at their house for a chat, and it is better to just rock up than to tell them you are coming, because you want to take them by surprise. Because if they know you are coming, then they can prepare themselves emotionally and block you out. It is also very brave to just turn up when they don’t know that you are coming, and they might just respect that. After they open the door, just have a nice chat and avoid talking about the break up situation until you have established some positive vibes. After that just see what happens, they may just change their mind about you!
Plan number two: Send your ex a letter
If you did something bad and upset your ex, and that is the reason why they ended the relationship, then it could be a good idea to write them a letter saying that you are sorry and that you have learnt from your mistakes. This way they might just begin to see that you have changed, and in that event they might be willing to try again with you. Your letter should be written by hand, because that shows that you put some real feeling into it and also it just comes across more genuine and personal than text typed on a computer would.
In the letter you should not ask them to take you back. You don’t want to pressure them. You want them to come to the conclusion that starting again with you would be a good idea, on their own. Pressure would only make things worse and cause them to reject you, but if you just talk in the letter about how you realized your mistakes, then they could choose to take you back.
I hope you get your ex back
The fact that you finished reading this article shows me that you really want your ex back and that you are determined to make it work with them. It would be great if my ideas helped you to achieve that, so good luck!