“The real world” dating, some people view online dating as less safe. Nothing could be farther from the truth!
Roy is probably the fact that someone like that in real life we usually works or school / university and we know that faith is for us to start, or a transparent, are to meet.
But no introduction after their online dates, online dating does not mean that it is unsafe – quite the opposite!
You can not get hurt by sitting in front of your computer, in fact, meeting someone online is safer than meeting someone in your local time.
All you need is to have to take some precautions to online dating. Your home and your personal life without getting to know them already, would not give a stranger, are you? Do not go online.
Here are 8 steps to help you have a safe and your online dating experience.
1. Anonymous Dating
It is also a great advantage is that contact through an online dating site is anonymous, so you can maintain your privacy, but there are some drawbacks – some people they may not be what they say. There are many such people, they do not exist. Most dating sites do not screen their members. You should use caution and common sense in your communication with other members.
2. Overseas Contact
Members from other countries than their own, especially with a safe communication. Some countries use their limited knowledge, you could try to take advantage. Never wire money to foreign members of any request, whether it is an emergency or please arrange travel advice for your help. To meet members abroad, first, contact your immigration officials, and to remember to choose the right option.
3. Getting to know each other
Do not give your personally identifying information to anyone you do not know well. First contacts the website use the user’s messaging system. Ask lots of questions and listen to their answers:
· They have to answer questions?
· Think his story credible?
· There are a few questions that they have not escaped their marital status, etc. with which they are?
· They are very sweet and seem to agree with everything you say?
It’s a red flag that you should be alert.
4. Sending photos
The truth is that the old picture is worth a thousand words. People are writing to ask for your photos and send them to you. Who feel like they never ask for your photos, it’s funny that everyone knows how he wants the guy dating! Once you get in real life, the picture must match the person behind it, or they feel disappointed: old photos or photos where you do not look like your real self-page. But that does not mean that you can send a photo of yourself with a smile, happy to present it in the best way that you can send the photos; It is always a winner! To view your photos in their investments, they try to find out what type of person who, if you look grumpy, they will think you are a bad-tempered. If you are looking happy and comfortable, but also what they will get. If you do not have recent pictures, you can ask to take pictures with a digital camera, a friend. Choose only the best and delete the shots you do not like. Ask how its reporters recently he sent pictures to avoid possible disappointment.
5. Giving your email address
When you feel comfortable with your communication, you can give them your personal email address. Register a separate email account for this purpose, and only for the use of your personal correspondence. If something is wrong in your relationships, you can always close the account and open a new one. Keep asking questions and discuss various things. Communication is all one way, so they probably have their own agenda.
6. Giving your phone number
The person you’ve been emailing you with their contact phone number, feel comfortable, preferably your mobile. Never give away your work number (or your work email address)! After all, the relationship does not work in case your boss or your office email or phone, you do not want to.
7. The face to face meeting
After you have talked a few times on email and phone to each other, this time, to meet face to face. You have to communicate with people, but the fact that they are not happy with the person using the phone can be misrepresented themselves or due to meet. Real, honest people do not want partners that are looking for virtual sex love is not the end, they want the real thing.
The only public place to meet for a first date, and preferably, to set a final date. For example, you can say that you only have half an hour before the appointment of a business; If the date does not go as you hope it will help. A “coffee date” is the safest bet. If you are a woman, never go to unknown places; Instead, the seat, where service personnel is, you know, at least in a place visually suggest your own version. A qualified person, they will honor their request.
A person with someone you have met online say that to date, it is your mother or brother, may be a person who will not judge you. If you do not feel like telling someone, you can make a note about how meeting a person and you know him / her, and this is where to get this information.
Meeting place of transport to get to their own home; Better still bring you a friend. Will never allow you to take your date home, even if someone is wrong with your car. Call a friend or call a taxi instead. Especially if no one has shown – to make sure you are not followed when leaving the meeting place.
You meet your date, do not jump to conclusions directly. You can create an image in your mind unconsciously, as a real person who is different; This is not their fault; Give them a chance. It is quite normal to feel awkward at first; Just relax and try not to focus on results, no matter if they like or do not like you, you are still enjoying a date. You need to focus attention on something to focus on having fun! Keep this helps, remember that they are upset and they can only hope that you’ll like them.
Smile! It helps to break the ice is nothing better than friendliness and openness. Something you can feel in my previous email, to share, so that when they are talking, you are really the person they are talking about.
However, exercise caution. With your mobile phone. Do not leave your drink unattended. If you leave the table, then order a fresh drink on Your Return.
Pay for themselves. Have you ever decide to meet the person again, so she did not tell them about the date. Please tell us about it in an email. Great “: the guy was asking how the date, tell them! Tonight I’ll e-mail. In order to cope with rejection, therefore, is to make it as good as you can be polite and easy to do.
8. Move your relationship
If you do not see each other for some time before the first date to enjoy the process. There is a very rapid progress; You should really know a person before you decide it’s a relationship of any kind. To present the person you share a land line phone number, business cards, so it’s good signs: they want to continue to trust and respect you. Decide whether or not to accept their invitation to you now.
Most of all – is that what it’s all about fun. Some people will do what you are looking for you, and you may not be suitable for everyone. But if you persist, you will do better and better. It takes a load of garbage to find the gold. Remember that each encounter is a learning experience that can make you more successful.
Thousands of people just like others before it – yet another person through an online dating site to find your soul may be MATE!
Happy dating!
